Abuse, in Marriage

Abuse, in Marriage: "What is Emotional Abuse?
There are various types of emotional abuse. Below is a list of characteristics that are emotionally abuse.
Rejecting
·Telling a person that they are unwanted
·Telling a person to leave
·Name-calling
·Telling the person they are worthless
·Making the person the scapegoat, blaming them for everything
Ignoring
·Does not show attachment
·Does not provide nurturance
·Does not show or express affection
·Physically there, but emotionally unavailable
·Does not recognize the other persons presence
·Uses the “silent treatment”
Terrorizing
·Singling out a person to criticize and punish
·Ridiculing him or her for displaying normal emotions
·Having expectations far beyond his or her normal abilities
·Threatening person with death, mutilation and abandonment
Isolation
·Not allowing person to interact with other
·Restricting person to a room
·Restricting eating to isolation or seclusion
·Restrict/monitoring phone calls
Corrupting
·Allowing minors to use drugs or alcohol
·Forcing others to watch pornographic material or sex acts
·Forcing someone to participate in or witness criminal activities
·Forcing someone to witness cruelty to animals"



omg...this is actually a form of abuse and i'm sure many of you have encountered it..O.O
i'm really surprised.

friends forever...

i wish it is that easy.....

bye kevin

good luck in australia kay sweetie...

as promised i'm here to update about my college life.

well maybe i have too high expectations or whatever things don't seem that smooth or rather not the way i thought it would be.

everyone from my class are form outstation and from all girls or boys school which kinda explains why it is so hard for us to click..yea well i chose this package and i thought it would be really fun..who would have thought college life is this boring.sigh.

really do miss evryone..

things just got a lil better and now a whole new beginning.should i change class? but wouldn't wanna regret later too..and best part there's only 3 guys in my class..urghh..arts class students seem to be having so much fun and their classes are all around me...how unfair..

baby boy in sunway.

only can spend an hour with him once a week.

ppl that i need and wanna see are all so far away..sigh

this really sucks.

hello blogger world...yea due to stupid and unexplainable reasons i couldn't upload this last few pics in my last post but its counted as my 100th post too..i don't care..haha..well, yea..i've been long away and this blog can so be considered dead.sowee..but i'm going to revive it again...hee..see thats a picture of me...quite a recent picture..and yea i did many many things after spm ended..some were well okayy and some were really fun.went out most of the time...evrywhere. got to know which friends are good to stay..who are the ones to keep and who are the ones u can just let it go..ahhh...feels like i grew bigger.wiser.smarter.i can see the world properly now..hee..see i sound so wise too....so now i will update more often and pls do come by more often readerss..=)

no ang ang

no tong tong

stars are something that i used to love since i was young.

used to wish that i can sleep on the grass being watched and protected by them.

the way they shine is like they are just smiling at us..

telling us to never give up and no matter what there is a reason for us to start smiling again.

just like the sunshine..

i love the way stars shine.

i always wish that it'll be mine..

now i feel that it's so fine..

because i have all the time..

to be with you

and everynight..

the stars will be the last thing i see..

just the way u want it to be..

yes i was shocked.

lost.sad.happy.surprised and most of all loved for what u did.

u are my brightest star..

forever will be.

remember what i say about the word FOREVER?!

always and forever.

not someday.

every single day.

i love you.

and yes i'm glad i met u.

we will never grow apart.

i believe we will never.

a thousand million promises.

heee..the best part of my form 5 toooooooo

update update and my 100th post!

whoops another half of the pics i have for prom..

too lazy to move it down...so yea..hee a lil messy..

jo ee maa...so yea..deal with it if u wanna read my blog.ahahh

=D

with erik.
david and his and us..

kyle
ben koo
ghai jon.
eta ppl

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managed to spend a lil time with the girls before...well everyone starts growing apart..lunch at italliannies..haha..i don't want pizza....msaa's in president college doing some express program..nii and vonn doing a levels and i'll be in sam all by myself..i'm serious okayy u guys forget me i BOMB youu..ahhah=D oh wells really looking forward for my orientation tmr..=)hee...

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me in the car sending grandma back home to kampar..haha=)

zw's painted nails..heee...retarded...by mee dowhh..haha=)

just us..well baby's in sunway and i'm in taylors..

we'll make it through i know we will.

i have confidence in you..and u know no one is better than ur baby girl!

spend quite alot of time with him this holiday...

more than i expected. we never really go out much b4 this.
yea..its amazing ur still with me after so long..

its because i surprise u and make u smile everyday..

all ur worries go away...

just like mine..

i love you

my one and only baby boy.

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prom/09. well this long awaited day just ended so quickly..all those worrying about what to wear and where to go ...all the preparation work was really unnecessary..for my opinion..i spend waay too much for that night..should have kept it for better cause..sighh..its okayy..a night to remember i guess..everyone was all dressed up.all looking pretty and handsome in their own way..high 5 to all!

nominations for best dressed.

see i have muscular legs.haha

(not edited at all)

my dress is short in the front with

a long train at the back..

thanks all esp msaa for watching my tail for mee=)

heels off!!!

friends that i never thought i'll make in these 2 years.

i'll miss u all..

msaa: ever caring for me..sitting beside me for the whole year.well almost..haha=)

my basketball mate..super good planner!

come back and visit us kayyyy!!

nishaa: sweetest of all..gives me hugs all the time..haha..well true meaning of hugs..

u'll never get bored of them..everyone loves hugs..and i love it tooo!

and i'm auto invited now..see i got vip passes for everything now ey girl?hahha

vonnnn: i'll remember all those times where susela will shout our names for always talking

in her class..haha..yea lor got too much to talk about laa..hahha..yay!

and we drove for the 1st time in our lives togetherr..thanks to me..hahha=)

will definitely miss you!

ps..see i match ur names with ur fav colour too=)

a very tiny picture of us girls..

with erik...friend from primaryy..=)

real nice to talk too..heyy! stay strong with ur girl kayyy..

study hard in wherever u are..

retarded me..
drew.msa.me.ccy
me.hun.yew.koo
i like thiss
with kk thts now away at ns..=(

come back soon..

need partner for our ''videos''!!!

audience waiting for uss...

with shaun.

my brightest star.

dheepannn!!!

i will surely miss you!!

kevin sweetie..

always there when i need him.

ever since last time.

us..happyyy!!!
excuse me..performing for who?=)
her face when u were performing.haha.

jk.

my sexy date
super duper yeng!

deep fetched me there..

after waiting for so long..

phew..=)

awww..hunny big boy d!

like getting married.haha.

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well that kinda sums up all that i have been doing this whole month.

really nervous for college tmr..feeling old..5 year old girl big girl d!!!

ahaha..its okayy..we are all in this together..loving every bit of my high school days..

this is also my 100th post.been waiting to do this for a long time..something worth remembering..specially for everyone that has been in my life and helping me..guilding me through every step. wouldn't have made it without all of you!

i love you all!